May 19, 2008

Music in your Life !!!!!

Aah...sometimes I just imagine what it would be like....without songs..without music.Life would be such a drag.I breathe music.The first thing I do in the morning,is switch my radio on and listen either to the radio stations or my Cd's or tapes.But it has to be there.Its like if you don't brush your teeth,you don't feel fresh.That's what music does to me.

It helps me combat those lonely hours of the day when I have no one to talk to.It transports me to this world of lemon zest freshness,clear blue waters on the ever beautiful sandy beaches.I feel young and alive just thinking about it.

Iam a comfort eater...but have managed to use music as a vent out too.Otherwise I would have been 300 pounds today gulping galaxies and kinders down.

It brings me peace...inner to be specific,calms my nerves and lifts my spirits which do get hammered out of shape from time to time.Everyone needs that private stool in the corner of the the room to sit and reflect on what went wrong..mine is listening to music at such times.

Right now am in the process of recording a Cd full of slow romantic meaningful songs.Just gave mine away to a friend.Chocolates and favourite Cd's are something I never share.yeah..am selfish..come on....lets blame it on human nature.I'm really mean..blaming my weakness on humanity.

May 5, 2008

Rrromance.....

Iam a very romantic person by nature but thanks to life around me...cant afford to maintain the kind of romance that I want.

I love romantic poems...not reading them but to be read to.I love flowers....a lot.....Im not the one who plucks a beautiful flower the moment it blooms....But Im not the first one to refuse flowers given to me with love.

My husband used to be a hopeless romantic.Camping outside my place for hours together.We never spoke too much but just gazed...blushed and it was finally love.hehehe.....
I love romance the old fashioned way.Romance has lost its meaning nowadays.We are in a rush to talk..in a rush to know one another..in a rush to go partying together..in a rush for everything.

My idea of a perfect romantic day out would be...the gentleman coming up to my door with a nice picnic basket..sit by the beach..talk cute things....shayaris..poems or mushy stuff like that.Songs even....old romantic beautiful meaningful songs.....

Now I have to tell my gentleman for hours on end..that I want to go the beach...and I take black tea....diabetic crisis...some biscuits...he dozes off in the car and I watch the waves,the gulls,people sitting here and there......

tere dil me meri saanso ko panaa mil jaye....
tere ishq me meri jaa..... fanaa ho jaye....

na shaher dekho ,na biya' baa' dekho...(2)
khuda ka ek lotha naam aur neshan dekhobas aankh utayo........
aur rehan ko dekho.....

tumhari khubsurati ne khuda se khataa karadi...
kahi khud se nazar na lag jaye...
yu'karr tumhe nazar na di...

khash me unn ka gola hota...
unki ungliyo me lipta hota...

phool hu ghulab ka ,chameli ka na samajna...
ashiq hu apka,apne saheli ka na samajna...

beti'n hain hoton ko sikar...pachtayengi aap...
ishq jab uttha hai aksar..esi khamoshi ke baad....

insaan ke khwaish ki koi intihaa nahi....
do gaz zameen chahiye...
do gaz khafan ke baadd.....

dard se ankhen char kar lenge...
hum bhi imtihaa de denge...
teri dosti ke khatir ae dost...
hum dushmano se bhi pyar kar lenge....

humse dur jaoge kese....
dil se hume bhulaoge kese....
hum wo khushbu hain jo saanso me bastey hain....
khud ki saanso ko rok paoge kese.....

kehtey hain pyar me neend udd jati hain...
koi humse bhi mohabbat karey...
kambahkhat neend badi aathi hai....

esa laga khuda ne ...rakh diya humare dil pe haath..
liya naam humara unhone...kuch esi ada ke saath.....

paani se pyas na bhuji tho mehkhaney ki taref chal nikla...
socha shiqayat karu teri khuda se.....
par khuda bhi tera ashiq nikla...

kesi hain meri awaz...
jese tufano se pehle khamoshi....

kesi hai meri mehek...
jese pehle barish ke baad mitti ki khushbu....

May 1, 2008

Marriages.............

My sister will be celebrating her wedding anniversary in 2 days.Its gonna be her first.I asked her ( as I didn't know ),what and how did it feel to be married for a year? She feels like years.Strangely,before tying the knot,everyone thinks,"Oh..its roses and flowers and what not....but it isn't.Its hard work but a pleasurable one.Depends on how you see things from your point of view.It was weird initially,I felt I was compromising and changing and adjusting...but its the same for both.I personally feel a woman has too much on her plate compared to the guy.After as Asian women,we serve our men and kids forever.Nah !!! My sweetheart is a part gentleman and part jungle man.Works well for me !!!!

Before I lose myself in my own thoughts...I came across this little para in a website and It a nice recipe for marriage.Here it goes.....................

A Good Wedding Cake:
4lb of Love
1lb of Youth
1/2lb of Good Looks
1lb of Sweet Temper
1lb of Blindness for faults
1lb of Self forgetfulness
1lb of Pounded wit
1lb of Good Humour
2 tbsp of Sweet argument
1 pint of Rippling Laughter
1 wine glass of Common sense
1oz Modesty

Put the love,good looks and sweet temper into a well furnished house.
Beat the butter of youth to a cream and mix well together with the blindness for faults.
Stir the pounded wit and good humour into the sweet argument,then add the rippling laughter and common sense.
Work the whole together until everything is well mixed and bake gently forever.

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